BUT....BIG BIG BUT......
The bleed is still there and MASSIVE takes up about half her womb!!!! Also situated behind the placenta which is BAD. This really NEEDS to go away ASAP. The longer its there the more likely baby is to detach and basically die.....OMFG. It was no smaller :(
FCI are discharging her which is far from ideal but "just what they do". R now in the hands of HER OBYGN. Who on the positive has delivered 2 of R's amazing babies and also plenty of other babies BUT never a surrogacy pregnancy before...FCI are still advising pelvic rest (poor R she will be HATING me now) but IF HER dr says its fine she doesn't have to as its up to him now...which is kind of crazy. Although I know she has our best interests at heart.
Also if its still there AND baby at a later stage it can cause a host of OTHER complications including preterm labour etc.....
What we want - and the agency feel it is best- that this is a continued weekly scan until the bleed has gone so we can keep track of it for peace of mind so instead of waiting till 12 wks or whenever they would NORMALLY next scan (maybe even later!) we want to know how its going, because if its gone then we would be worrying for no reason!!!! Im feeling VERY in limbo and wont rest until we have a PLAN. IE the plan we want as the babies parents. Hopefully this wont be an issue...HOPEFULLY.
Nancy at CEO was AMAZING today, Thanks so much to her for being there and being so supportive.
Will post a scan pic when it arrives :) Im also hoping to skype with R later to tell her all this and see how she's doing.
We are going to TRY and focus that Baby CJ is doing well, but its worrying for both of us and Im sure R too...
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